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==Misuse of Equality with men==
==Misuse of Equality with men==


* Feeling of equality: Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops, Then go to beauty parlours (Waxing, Cleansing, etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before 'hair butcher' (shortened to barbers) to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these things and continue to call themselves Sikh. Today many gals do not care about their clothes; it is there to wear only to show their body. The Gurus gave equality to women but also wrote a [[Bani]] called [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]]. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* "Equality" does not mean "Similarity": Many of the morder girls make their personalities like boys; they wear similar clothes; they behave in the same "macho" manner; same agressive stance, etc. It's not surprising that feature that develop in boys begin to develops in these mordern girls. Then they go to beauty parlours (Waxing, 'Cleansing', shaving, etc).
 
Nowadays, maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before 'hair butcher' (shortened to barbers) to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these things and continue to call themselves Sikh. Today many gals do not care about their clothes; it is there to wear only to show their body. The Gurus gave equality to women but also wrote a [[Bani]] called [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]]. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


'''Some comments by Sikh girls?:'''
'''Some comments by Sikh girls?:'''
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"[[Kesh]]" is one of the five [[kakkar]]s of Sikhism.In [[Sikhism]] to cut hair is considered a sin and by doing so is called [[Patit]] Today girls  believe in artificial look. They want to give their own look by Cutting hair in different styles. [[Kanga]] is provided to set up the hair and keep them clean but in vein. Thus they are disobeying the Guru's order.
"[[Kesh]]" is one of the five [[kakkar]]s of Sikhism. In [[Sikhism]] to cut hair is considered a sin and by doing so is called [[Patit]]. Today girls  believe in artificial look. They want to give their own look by cutting hair in different styles. [[Kanga]] is provided to set up the hair and keep them clean but in vain. Thus they are disobeying the Guru's order.


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Many people disobey guruji's order. But there is no actual sin in Sikhism.. only self improvement.
Many people disobey Guru's order. But there is no actual sin in [[Sikhism]]; only self improvement.
Sin implies penance..penance is like, paying for a sin, im jus gna make up an example here...erm if your a Christian and you commit a sin, and you visit ur priest the priest says "go to this church and climb up and down the stairs this many times and your sin will be forgiven"<< that is penance.
Sin implies penance.... penance is like, paying for a sin. I'm just going to make up an example here...... erm, if your a Christian and you commit a sin, and you visit the priest; the priest may says "go to this church and climb up and down the stairs this many times and your sin will be forgiven"<< that is penance.
 


A Sikh is someone who 1) Believes in the [[Guru Granth Sahib]] ji as the last eternal guru
                      2) Believes in the [[5 k's]] 
                      3) Believes in taking [[amrit]]
                      4) is working towards becoming a [[Khalsa]].


a sikh is someone who 1) Believes in the Guru Granth Sahib ji as the last eternal guru
I'm a bit of an in-between. I've never cut my hair, because it means something to me. The point is, if hair doesn't mean much to a person they'll cut it. Let them cut it, when they want to keep it they will.=)
                      2) Believes in the 5 k's 
                      3) Believes in taking amrit
                      4) is working towards becoming a Khalsa.
I'm a bit of an in between, i've never cut my hair, because it means something to me. the point is, if hair doesn't mean much to a person they'll cut it. Let them cut it, when they want to keep it they will.=)


==Dressup & Nudity==
==Dressup & Nudity==
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* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls.The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society.In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]
* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls. The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society. In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]


* In gurdwaras these girls comes wearing indecent clothes. My Grandmom Says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes, you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company u have professional style including your sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why don't these girls think about the professionalism of Gurdwara. Simple Dress UP, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* In gurdwaras these girls come wearing indecent clothes. My Grandmom says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes, you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company you have professional style including your sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why don't these girls think about the professionalism of Gurdwara. Simple Dress required!, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]

Revision as of 12:39, 23 September 2009

From woman, man is born;

within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married.
Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come.
When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound.
So why call her bad? From her, kings are born.
From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all.

Guru Nanak, Raag Aasaa Mehal 1, Page 473

These are words that were uttered by the founder of Sikhism, Sri Guru Nanak Dev in about 1499. So for Sikhs from that period, there has been compulsion to treat women as equals and gender discrimination was not allowed. Guru Gobind Singh's also confirmed the equality by saying the line "Manas Kee Jaat Sabhey Ekey Pehchanboo" - "Regard all of human race as one".

The following are some of the real facts that one finds in modern type of Sikh girls. Actually they should not truly be considered as Sikh but as they are born in Sikh family; for the world they are Sikhs:

Misuse of Equality with men

  • "Equality" does not mean "Similarity": Many of the morder girls make their personalities like boys; they wear similar clothes; they behave in the same "macho" manner; same agressive stance, etc. It's not surprising that feature that develop in boys begin to develops in these mordern girls. Then they go to beauty parlours (Waxing, 'Cleansing', shaving, etc).

Nowadays, maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before 'hair butcher' (shortened to barbers) to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these things and continue to call themselves Sikh. Today many gals do not care about their clothes; it is there to wear only to show their body. The Gurus gave equality to women but also wrote a Bani called Suchajee & Kuchajee. By user:hpt_lucky

Some comments by Sikh girls?:

  • Misuse of equality? See, this is what frustrates me also. As a Sikh girl in the UK, I'm still in school and im at the stage where I question everything....

If Sikh men...can drink...why cant Sikh women? Sikhs are the most notorious drinkers!! its a fact!! If a man drinks so can his wife. If the man doesn't want his wife to drink he should stop also.

  • and a girl can do what a guy can do! Sikh girls are the daughters of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, they too have the spirit of a lion within them. people should not forget that! I hate being told that i cant do something when the implication of the reasoning is that im a girl, and if i was a boy i would be allowed to!
  • the day sikh boys learn to treat women with more respect, and show some admiration towards girls who conduct themselves with dignity is the day sikh girls wont feel the need to expose themselves.

It works both ways!

Killing Hair