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==Misuse of Equality with men==
==Misuse of Equality with men==
* Feeling Of equality, Makes their personalities like boys, Feature develops as boys have, Then go to beauty parlours(Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a baani caled [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]].  
* Feeling Of equality, Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops , Then go to beauty parlours(Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a baani caled [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]].  


By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
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* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls.The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society.In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]
* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls.The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society.In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]


* In gurdwars these girls comes wearing Bharkilaey clothes. My Grandmom Says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes yaar you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company u have professional style including ur sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why dont these girls think about the professionalism of gurudwara. Simple Dress UP, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* In gurdwars these girls comes wearing indecent clothes. My Grandmom Says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes, you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company u have professional style including your sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why don't these girls think about the professionalism of Gurdwara. Simple Dress UP, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
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* Today due to the lot of exposure of sex on TV there is a negative impact on our younger generation .Not only Sikh girls but non Sikh girls are falling prey to such lustful desires.  it is truth. Infactuation is there. We have many examples where Sikh girls are doing sex at the early age of 15-18 to fulfil their lustful desire.In Sikhism Sex is not prohibited but it ir allowed in the prescribed format of  Married life with loyality. By [[user:sarbjeet_1313me]]
* Today due to the lot of exposure of sex on TV there is a negative impact on our younger generation .Not only Sikh girls but non Sikh girls are falling prey to such lustful desires.  it is truth. Infactuation is there. We have many examples where Sikh girls are doing sex at the early age of 15-18 to fulfil their lustful desire.In Sikhism Sex is not prohibited but it ir allowed in the prescribed format of  Married life with loyality. By [[user:sarbjeet_1313me]]


-There is alot of negative impact, this is westernised society and we as sikhs have to learn to combat its influence. We cant stop it from happening, but we can stop the influence in our communities.
* There is alot of negative impact, this is westernised society and we as sikhs have to learn to combat its influence. We cant stop it from happening, but we can stop the influence in our communities. '''(User:Unknown)'''


-As for girls and dressing up, girls need to cover up more! There is no reason why you cant look good and be modest. But its also upto the men, alot of young sikh boys, especially here in the UK, have NO SELF CONTROL!! its really quite sad..i think within the communities girls need to have more self respect in general, then they wont feel the need for attention from men, they'll stop dressing indecently as it is.
* As for girls and dressing up, girls need to cover up more! There is no reason why you cant look good and be modest. But its also upto the men, alot of young sikh boys, especially here in the UK, have NO SELF CONTROL!! its really quite sad..i think within the communities girls need to have more self respect in general, then they wont feel the need for attention from men, they'll stop dressing indecently as it is.'''(User:Unknown)'''


==Why Drop "Kaur"? ==
=="Kaur" Removal from Names==
'''Kaur''' means "princess" and is a name that should used as the last name by female Sikhs. This custom was first introduced in 1699 by [[Guru Gobind Singh]], the tenth Sikh Guru when he administered Amrit(baptism) to both males and female Sikhs. All female Sikhs were asked to use the name Kaur after their forename and males were to use the name Singh, meaning "lion". This custom further confirmed equality to both genders as was the tradition set by the founder of Sikhism, Guru Nanak. For a sikh born family kaur is automatically introduced to as a last name.
'''Kaur''' means "princess" and is a name that should used as the last name by female Sikhs. This custom was first introduced in 1699 by [[Guru Gobind Singh]], the tenth Sikh Guru when he administered Amrit(baptism) to both males and female Sikhs. All female Sikhs were asked to use the name Kaur after their forename and males were to use the name Singh, meaning "lion". This custom further confirmed equality to both genders as was the tradition set by the founder of Sikhism, Guru Nanak. For a sikh born family kaur is automatically introduced to as a last name.


But today girls are removing kaur out from there names and put their surnames or clans instead of kaur. This tendency has mainly risen up in punjab where the name  Kaur is of less revalance to them than their surname. For eg :A jatt Sikh girl here lives whose proper name is Paravydeep Kaur Nijjar, but she likes her to call Paravydeep Nijjer. Sly a girl name Samia Kaur Arora call her Samia Arora. Where are their identity. This shows the discrimination as guru jee provide the name to all female not to discriminate on the basis of caste and they provide the name '''kaur''', that every female is princess here but the sikh women do not accept this last name. Again Caste Discrimination, Patit Sikh concept generate. This is mostly seen in girls of Jatt and Khatri community. [http://www.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/news.nsf/NewsArchive/BB2C6CCFA42E878C8725732F0059C270 Latest news in Aug 2007 shows a girl  hates 'Kaur' in her name, wanted certificate she is a Sikh]. There are many examples like these.
But today girls are removing kaur out from there names and put their surnames or clans instead of kaur. This tendency has mainly risen up in punjab. Kaur is of less relevance to them then their surname. For eg :A jatt Sikh girl here lives whose proper name is Paravydeep Kaur Nijjar, but she likes her to call Paravydeep Nijjer. Sly a girl name Samia Kaur Arora call her Samia Arora. Where are their identity. This shows the discrimination as guru jee provide the name to all female not to discriminate on the basis of caste and they provide the name '''kaur''', that every female is princess here but the sikh women do not accept this last name. Again Caste Discrimination, Patit Sikh concept generate. This is mostly seen in girls of Jatt and Khatri community. [http://www.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/news.nsf/NewsArchive/BB2C6CCFA42E878C8725732F0059C270 Latest news in Aug 2007 shows a girl  hates 'Kaur' in her name, wanted certificate she is a Sikh]. There are many examples like these.


====Yahoo Chat(Ustaad SIngh & P. Kaur)====
====Yahoo Chat(Ustaad SIngh & P. Kaur)====

Revision as of 09:09, 28 May 2008

These are words that were uttered by the founder of Sikhism, Sri Guru Nanak Dev in about 1499. So for Sikhs from that period, there has been compulsion to treat women as equals and gender discrimination was not allowed. Guru Gobind Singh's also confirmed the equality by saying the line "Manas Kee Jaat Sabhey Ekey Pehchanboo". The following are ome facts find in modern type of sikh girls, actually they are not considered as sikh but due to born in sikh family for the world they are sikhs:

Misuse of Equality with men

  • Feeling Of equality, Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops , Then go to beauty parlours(Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a baani caled Suchajee & Kuchajee.

By user:hpt_lucky

Killing Hair

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