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Rab Rakhaa  [[User:Allenwalla|Allenwalla]] 04:41, 14 May 2010 (UTC)
Rab Rakhaa  [[User:Allenwalla|Allenwalla]] 04:41, 14 May 2010 (UTC)
== Need to bring to the attention of parents of young Sikh brides in India ==
Dear Sarbjeet Singh ji, {{WKWF}}
I have come across a particular problem with Sikh boys marrying NRI girls and then divorcing them before the 2 years so that the girl has to leave UK and go back to her country of origin; they keep the dowry and all the items belonging to the girl. I want to investigate the viability of creating a database of these perpetrators so that this trend can be stemmed. I wonder if a database can be setup using Orkut or such platform to help bring these perpetrators to the attention of parents of girls in India and other NRI countries so that they can be better informed about these types of people. This trend is leading to a lot of misery for our young girls.
I have come across a Sikh boy in the UK who has been married twice and is divorcing for the second time and has already lined up a new bride in India. I have been involved in trying to assist the second girl but the boy and his family are not interested in negotiation or any compromise. Can you help in setting up this database?
The database should hold the pictures of the boy and/or his family - say up to 5 images in jpeg or other format; fields for his first name, surname and location details consisting of Town, County/District and Country; age and summary text field of 1000-5000 characters. Any help in setting up this would be most welcomed. Many thanks, [[user:hari singh|Hari Singh]]<sup>[[User talk:Hari singh|talk]]</sup> 23:02, 4 July 2010 (UTC)

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"Sarbjeet ji, For a person who has shown dedication and commitment to SikhiWiki please accept this - The SikhiWiki man with a Heart barnstar. Many thanks for your continued dedication and hard work. Also your love and affection for other SikhiWiki users. You are a true Sikh of the Guru. It is an honour to have you on the team here. Keep up the great work!
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Bhai sahib ji, Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh

The backup is done. It was a very long list of messages. Please free to ask me again if you need this processed repeated or perhaps you want to try it yourself next time. Please feel free to ask either way. Kind regards, Hari Singhtalk 13:31, 8 February 2010 (UTC)

Good night

Veerji, saw you were on, just wanted to say hello. 4am here . Rab Rakha

NISHAAN SAHIB

Bhai Sahib ji, Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh

Should we bow down before NISHAAN SAHIB? The short answer is no. The Sikh only bows to the shabad Guru, the essence of Waheguru and nothing else. However we respect everyone and live in humility and humbleness and if one shows respect to the Nishan as it reminds them of the Guru and hence Guru Shabad then who are we to discourage this.

Some people pay respects to material things belonging to the Guru as it connects them to the Guru and so to the Shabad Guru - the word or command of the Guru. The important thing is the shabad - the meaning in the words of Gurbani. We show deep respect and follow the words of the Guru - That is what we promise to do when we bow to the Guru. "Waheguru, I accept your words and your hukam". However, if we do not follow the shabad then the bowing is in vain; it is wasted. So as long as you learn and dwell on the words of the Guru then bow to whatever connects you to this word; that is the real meaning of bowing in Sikhi - bowing and accepting the shabad.

Waheguru, mahar karan, may we learn and absorb the real meaning of Gurbani and follow Gurmat. Kind regards, Hari Singhtalk 23:50, 24 March 2010 (UTC)

Veer ji,

Many thanks to you and S Mandeep Singh ji. I am only the delivery-man; the message I hope is as sent by the Guru through Gurbani. Please continue to spread the beautiful message of the tall, tall Guru who dwarfs us all; but with such an able leader, I don't think we can go wrong provide we continue to practise Gurmat as did the Sikhs like Baba Deep Singh, etc. May he give us the strength and vision to stay on his path.

I am most grateful for the reminder; I will update the active user list in 2 or 3 days. Veer ji, Many thanks for your kind words; everyone in the family is very well by the grace of Guru Nanak; may his nadar prevail at all times. I hope the same applies to all your family. Keep in chardikala. Raab Rakha. Hari Singhtalk 03:19, 25 March 2010 (UTC)

long time no see

Sarbjeet ji, hope all is well in Jammu, have not seen or rather heard from you here in a long time. Hope all the family is well.

Rab Rakhaa Allenwalla 04:41, 14 May 2010 (UTC)

Need to bring to the attention of parents of young Sikh brides in India

Dear Sarbjeet Singh ji, Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh

I have come across a particular problem with Sikh boys marrying NRI girls and then divorcing them before the 2 years so that the girl has to leave UK and go back to her country of origin; they keep the dowry and all the items belonging to the girl. I want to investigate the viability of creating a database of these perpetrators so that this trend can be stemmed. I wonder if a database can be setup using Orkut or such platform to help bring these perpetrators to the attention of parents of girls in India and other NRI countries so that they can be better informed about these types of people. This trend is leading to a lot of misery for our young girls.

I have come across a Sikh boy in the UK who has been married twice and is divorcing for the second time and has already lined up a new bride in India. I have been involved in trying to assist the second girl but the boy and his family are not interested in negotiation or any compromise. Can you help in setting up this database?

The database should hold the pictures of the boy and/or his family - say up to 5 images in jpeg or other format; fields for his first name, surname and location details consisting of Town, County/District and Country; age and summary text field of 1000-5000 characters. Any help in setting up this would be most welcomed. Many thanks, Hari Singhtalk 23:02, 4 July 2010 (UTC)