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'''Laava'''
The '''''laava''''' (singular '''''laav''''') are the four [[hymn]]s of the ''[[Anand Karaj]]'' ([[Sikh]] [[wedding]] [[ceremony]]) which form the main part of this ceremony. The four hymns are from the [[Guru Granth Sahib]], the Sikh holy scriptures and appear on pages 773 to 774 of the total of 1430.


This is 4 [[Shabad]]s of [[Gurbani]] from page 773 to 774 of [[SGGS]] which are sung at the wedding ceremony for [[Sikh]]s:
[[Guru Ram Das]] says on page 788 of the [[Sri Guru Granth Sahib]] of the meaning of marriage to a Sikh couple: '''''"They are not said to be husband and wife who merely sit together. Rather they alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies."''''' The four laava give the Sikh couple spiritual guidance for their life ahead. The Guru tells of the four stages of married life and the how the couple as a team have to first begin by following the path of righteousness and sinless-ness. Secondly to only have fear of the Lord and remove the ego within the souls; then to remember and sing the Lords name with the holy congregation. Finally, the couple will find divine peace; will accept the Will of the Lord and find unending happiness in the Lord.
 
==The Four Rounds==
 
The main part of the [[Anand Karaj]] (Sikh Marriage Ceremony) is the reading and then the singing of each '''laav''' in turn. When the Laav is sung, the couple as a pair joint by a piece of cloth circle the [[SGGS]]. This has relevance to the occasion and should not be considered a ritual without meaning. When the couple circle the SGGS each time they are making a commitment to God with the Guru as their spiritual witness and support. And as one circles the Sri Guru Granth Sahib you are reminded that the Guru should be the center of your life, from which springs your spiritual leadership and understanding that you require for your soul's long journey across this 'world ocean'. The [[Sri Guru Granth Sahib]] is the spiritual center and the Sadh Sangat is your worldly (temporal) witness and support.
 
The four nuptial rounds were written by [[Guru Ram Das]] for his own wedding. They explain the journey of the souls toward the Almighty. In them he tells us of the duties that a person undertaking a life of marriage should perform. In the first round, the Guru asks the partners to:
 
* commit to righteousness.
* renounce sinful actions.
* Remember, mediate and embrace [[Naam]].
* Only by good fortune, is real peace obtained and Lord seems sweet to the mind.
* Worship the one [[Waheguru]] and all your sins will vanish.
 
In the second round, the Guru asks the partners to advance further towards meeting the True Guru - God:
 
* The Lord leads you to meet the True Guru, the Primal Being - the enlightener
* have fear of fearless God and your ego will disappear
* Sing God's praises and feel His presence before you.
* God is everywhere, outside and within, sing in Joy
 
 
In the third round, the Guru says that the partners mind is filled with "Divine Love":
 
* meeting the Sadh Sangat (Holy Congregation)
* speak the Word of the Lord's [[Bani]].
* which is only obtained by good fortune
* Recite [[Gurbani]] and sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord
* The [[Naam] will vibrates and resounds within your heart
* and you will know your future destiny.
 
In the final round, the Guru says that the partners mind become peaceful and they will have found the Lord:
 
* God's Will seems sweet to these Gurmukhs.
* You will lovingly focus your consciousness on the Lord, day and night
* All your desires will be fulfilled
* The Souls will blend with Waheguru and only Naam will occupy your heart.




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Worship and adore the Guru, the Perfect True Guru, and all your sins shall be dispelled. <br> <br>
Worship and adore the Guru, the Perfect True Guru, and all your sins shall be dispelled. <br> <br>


ਸਹਜ ਅਨੰਦ੝ ਹੋਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਮਨਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ॥ <br>
ਸਹਜ ਅਨੰਦ੝ ਹੋਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਮਨਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਮੀ
sahj anand ho-aa vadbhaagee man har har meethaa laa-i-aa. <br>
By great good fortune, celestial bliss is attained, and the Lord, Har, Har, seems sweet to the mind. <br> <br>
 
ਜਨ੝  ਕਹੈ  ਨਾਨਕ੝  ਲਾਵ  ਪਹਿਲੀ  ਆਰੰਭ੝  ਕਾਜ੝  ਰਚਾਇਆ  ॥੧॥ <br>
jan kahai naanak laav pahilee aarambh kaaj rachaa-i-aa. ((1)) <br>
Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the first round of the marriage ceremony, the marriage ceremony has begun. ((1))}}
 
 
 
===Second Laav ===
 
{{Quote|ਹਰਿ ਦੂਜੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਸਤਿਗ੝ਰ੝ ਪ੝ਰਖ੝ ਮਿਲਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
har doojrhee laav satgur purakh milaa-i-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
In the second round of the marriage ceremony, the Lord leads you to meet the True Guru, the Primal Being. <br> <br>
 
ਨਿਰਭਉ ਭੈ ਮਨ੝ ਹੋਇ ਹਉਮੈ ਮੈਲ੝ ਗਵਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
nirbha-o bhai man ho-ay ha-umai mail gavaa-i-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
With the Fear of God, the Fearless Lord in the mind, the filth of egotism is eradicated. <br> <br>
 
ਨਿਰਮਲ੝ ਭਉ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਗ੝ਣ ਗਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਵੇਖੈ ਰਾਮ੝ ਹਦੂਰੇ ॥ <br>
nirmal bha-o paa-i-aa har gun gaa-i-aa har vaykhai raam hadooray. <br>
In the Fear of God, the Immaculate Lord, sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord, and behold the Lord's Presence before you. <br> <br>
 
ਹਰਿ ਆਤਮ ਰਾਮ੝ ਪਸਾਰਿਆ ਸ੝ਆਮੀ ਸਰਬ ਰਹਿਆ ਭਰਪੂਰੇ ॥ <br>
har aatam raam pasaari-aa su-aamee sarab rahi-aa bharpooray. <br>
The Lord, the Supreme Soul, is the Lord and Master of the Universe; He is pervading and permeating everywhere, fully filling all spaces. <br> <br>
 
ਅੰਤਰਿ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਪ੝ਰਭ੝ ਝਕੋ ਮਿਲਿ ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਮੰਗਲ ਗਾਝ ॥ <br>
antar baahar har parabh ayko mil har jan mangal gaa-ay. <br>
Deep within, and outside as well, there is only the One Lord God. Meeting together, the humble servants of the Lord sing the songs of joy. <br> <br>
 
ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਦੂਜੀ ਲਾਵ ਚਲਾਈ ਅਨਹਦ ਸਬਦ ਵਜਾਝ ॥੨॥ <br>
jan naanak doojee laav chalaa-ee anhad sabad vajaa-ay. ((2)) <br>
Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the second round of the marriage ceremony, the unstruck sound current of the Shabad resounds. ((2))}}
 
 
 
===Third Laav ===
 
{{Quote|ਹਰਿ ਤੀਜੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਮਨਿ ਚਾਉ ਭਇਆ ਬੈਰਾਗੀਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
har teejrhee laav man chaa-o bha-i-aa bairaagee-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
In the third round of the marriage ceremony, the mind is filled with Divine Love. <br> <br>
 
ਸੰਤ ਜਨਾ ਹਰਿ ਮੇਲ੝ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
sant janaa har mayl har paa-i-aa vadbhaagee-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
Meeting with the humble Saints of the Lord, I have found the Lord, by great good fortune. <br> <br>
 
ਨਿਰਮਲ੝ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਗ੝ਣ ਗਾਇਆ ਮ੝ਖਿ ਬੋਲੀ ਹਰਿ ਬਾਣੀ ॥ <br>
nirmal har paa-i-aa har gun gaa-i-aa mukh bolee har banee. <br>
I have found the Immaculate Lord, and I sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord. I speak the Word of the Lord's Bani. <br> <br>
 
ਸੰਤ ਜਨਾ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਕਥੀਝ ਅਕਥ ਕਹਾਣੀ ॥ <br>
sant janaa vadbhaagee paa-i-aa har kathee-ai akath kahaanee. <br>
By great good fortune, I have found the humble Saints, and I speak the Unspoken Speech of the Lord. <br> <br>
 
ਹਿਰਦੈ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਧ੝ਨਿ ਉਪਜੀ ਹਰਿ ਜਪੀਝ ਮਸਤਕਿ ਭਾਗ੝ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
hirdai har har har Dhun upjee har japee-ai mastak bhaag jee-o. <br>
The Name of the Lord, Har, Har, Har, vibrates and resounds within my heart; meditating on the Lord, I have realized the destiny inscribed upon my forehead. <br> <br>
 
ਜਨ੝ ਨਾਨਕ੝ ਬੋਲੇ ਤੀਜੀ ਲਾਵੈ ਹਰਿ ਉਪਜੈ ਮਨਿ ਬੈਰਾਗ੝ ਜੀਉ ॥੩॥ <br>
jan naanak bolay teejee laavai har upjai man bairaag jee-o. ((3)) <br>
Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the third round of the marriage ceremony, the mind is filled with Divine Love for the Lord. ((3))}}
 
 
 
===Fourth and Final Laav ===
 
{{Quote|ਹਰਿ ਚਉਥੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਮਨਿ ਸਹਜ੝ ਭਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
har cha-utharhee laav man sahj bha-i-aa har paa-i-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
In the fourth round of the marriage ceremony, my mind has become peaceful; I have found the Lord. <br> <br>
 
ਗ੝ਰਮ੝ਖਿ ਮਿਲਿਆ ਸ੝ਭਾਇ ਹਰਿ ਮਨਿ ਤਨਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥ <br>
gurmukh mili-aa subhaa-ay har man tan meethaa laa-i-aa bal raam jee-o. <br>
As Gurmukh, I have met Him, with intuitive ease; the Lord seems so sweet to my mind and body. <br> <br>
 
ਹਰਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ਮੇਰੇ ਪ੝ਰਭ ਭਾਇਆ ਅਨਦਿਨ੝ ਹਰਿ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਈ ॥ <br>
har meethaa laa-i-aa mayray parabh bhaa-i-aa an-din har liv laa-ee. <br>
The Lord seems so sweet; I am pleasing to my God. Night and day, I lovingly focus my consciousness on the Lord. <br> <br>
 
ਮਨ ਚਿੰਦਿਆ ਫਲ੝ ਪਾਇਆ ਸ੝ਆਮੀ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮਿ ਵਜੀ ਵਾਧਾਈ ॥ <br>
man chindi-aa fal paa-i-aa su-aamee har naam vajee vaaDhaa-ee. <br>
I have obtained my Lord and Master, the fruit of my mind's desires. The Lord's Name resounds and resonates. <br> <br>
 
ਹਰਿ ਪ੝ਰਭਿ ਠਾਕ੝ਰਿ ਕਾਜ੝ ਰਚਾਇਆ ਧਨ ਹਿਰਦੈ ਨਾਮਿ ਵਿਗਾਸੀ ॥ <br>
har parabh thaakur kaaj rachaa-i-aa Dhan hirdai naam vigaasee. <br>
The Lord God, my Lord and Master, blends with His bride, and her heart blossoms forth in the Naam. <br> <br>
 
ਜਨ੝ ਨਾਨਕ੝ ਬੋਲੇ ਚਉਥੀ ਲਾਵੈ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਪ੝ਰਭ੝ ਅਵਿਨਾਸੀ ॥੪॥੨॥ <br>
jan naanak bolay cha-uthee laavai har paa-i-aa parabh avinaasee. ((4)(2)) <br>
Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the fourth round of the marriage ceremony, we have found the Eternal Lord God. ((4)(2))}}
 
see also [[Anand Karaj]], [[Attending a Sikh Wedding]]
 
 
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Revision as of 20:13, 23 June 2006

The laava (singular laav) are the four hymns of the Anand Karaj (Sikh wedding ceremony) which form the main part of this ceremony. The four hymns are from the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scriptures and appear on pages 773 to 774 of the total of 1430.

Guru Ram Das says on page 788 of the Sri Guru Granth Sahib of the meaning of marriage to a Sikh couple: "They are not said to be husband and wife who merely sit together. Rather they alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies." The four laava give the Sikh couple spiritual guidance for their life ahead. The Guru tells of the four stages of married life and the how the couple as a team have to first begin by following the path of righteousness and sinless-ness. Secondly to only have fear of the Lord and remove the ego within the souls; then to remember and sing the Lords name with the holy congregation. Finally, the couple will find divine peace; will accept the Will of the Lord and find unending happiness in the Lord.

The Four Rounds

The main part of the Anand Karaj (Sikh Marriage Ceremony) is the reading and then the singing of each laav in turn. When the Laav is sung, the couple as a pair joint by a piece of cloth circle the SGGS. This has relevance to the occasion and should not be considered a ritual without meaning. When the couple circle the SGGS each time they are making a commitment to God with the Guru as their spiritual witness and support. And as one circles the Sri Guru Granth Sahib you are reminded that the Guru should be the center of your life, from which springs your spiritual leadership and understanding that you require for your soul's long journey across this 'world ocean'. The Sri Guru Granth Sahib is the spiritual center and the Sadh Sangat is your worldly (temporal) witness and support.

The four nuptial rounds were written by Guru Ram Das for his own wedding. They explain the journey of the souls toward the Almighty. In them he tells us of the duties that a person undertaking a life of marriage should perform. In the first round, the Guru asks the partners to:

  • commit to righteousness.
  • renounce sinful actions.
  • Remember, mediate and embrace Naam.
  • Only by good fortune, is real peace obtained and Lord seems sweet to the mind.
  • Worship the one Waheguru and all your sins will vanish.

In the second round, the Guru asks the partners to advance further towards meeting the True Guru - God:

  • The Lord leads you to meet the True Guru, the Primal Being - the enlightener
  • have fear of fearless God and your ego will disappear
  • Sing God's praises and feel His presence before you.
  • God is everywhere, outside and within, sing in Joy


In the third round, the Guru says that the partners mind is filled with "Divine Love":

  • meeting the Sadh Sangat (Holy Congregation)
  • speak the Word of the Lord's Bani.
  • which is only obtained by good fortune
  • Recite Gurbani and sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord
  • The [[Naam] will vibrates and resounds within your heart
  • and you will know your future destiny.

In the final round, the Guru says that the partners mind become peaceful and they will have found the Lord:

  • God's Will seems sweet to these Gurmukhs.
  • You will lovingly focus your consciousness on the Lord, day and night
  • All your desires will be fulfilled
  • The Souls will blend with Waheguru and only Naam will occupy your heart.


First Laav

{{Quote|ਸੂਹੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੪ ॥ soohee mehlaa 4. Soohee, Fourth Mehl:

ਹਰਿ ਪਹਿਲੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਪਰਵਿਰਤੀ ਕਰਮ ਦ੝ਰਿੜਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥
har pahilarhee laav parvirtee karam drirh-aa-i-aa bal raam jee-o.
In the first round of the marriage ceremony, the Lord sets out His Instructions for performing the daily duties of married life.

ਬਾਣੀ ਬ੝ਰਹਮਾ ਵੇਦ੝ ਧਰਮ੝ ਦ੝ਰਿੜਹ੝ ਪਾਪ ਤਜਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥
banee barahmaa vayd Dharam darirhHu paap tajaa-i-aa bal raam jee-o.
Instead of the hymns of the Vedas to Brahma, embrace the righteous conduct of Dharma, and renounce sinful actions.

ਧਰਮ੝ ਦ੝ਰਿੜਹ੝ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮ੝ ਧਿਆਵਹ੝ ਸਿਮ੝ਰਿਤਿ ਨਾਮ੝ ਦ੝ਰਿੜਾਇਆ ॥
Dharam darirhHu har naam Dhi-aavahu simrit naam drirh-aa-i-aa.
Meditate on the Lord's Name; embrace and enshrine the contemplative remembrance of the Naam.

ਸਤਿਗ੝ਰ੝ ਗ੝ਰ੝ ਪੂਰਾ ਆਰਾਧਹ੝ ਸਭਿ ਕਿਲਵਿਖ ਪਾਪ ਗਵਾਇਆ ॥
satgur gur pooraa aaraaDhahu sabh kilvikh paap gavaa-i-aa.
Worship and adore the Guru, the Perfect True Guru, and all your sins shall be dispelled.

ਸਹਜ ਅਨੰਦ੝ ਹੋਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਮਨਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਮੀ