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These are words that were uttered by the founder of [[Sikhism]], Sri [[Guru Nanak Dev]] in about 1499. So for Sikhs from that period, there has been compulsion to treat women as equals and gender discrimination was not allowed. [[Guru Gobind Singh]]'s also confirmed the equality by saying the line "Manas Kee Jaat Sabhey Ekey Pehchanboo". The following are ome facts find in modern type of sikh girls, actually they are not considered as sikh but due to born in sikh family for the world they are sikhs:
{{Quoter|From woman, man is born; <br>
within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married. <br>
Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come. <br>
When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound. <br>
So why call her bad? From her, kings are born. <br>
From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all. |Guru Nanak, Raag Aasaa Mehal 1, Page 473}}
 
These are words that were uttered by the founder of [[Sikhism]], Sri [[Guru Nanak Dev]] in about 1499. So for [[Sikh]]s from that period, there has been compulsion to treat women as equals and gender discrimination was not allowed. [[Guru Gobind Singh]]'s also confirmed the equality by saying the line "Manas Kee Jaat Sabhey Ekey Pehchanboo" - ''"Regard all of human race as one"''.
 
The following are some of the real facts that one finds in modern type of Sikh girls. Actually they should not truly be considered as Sikh but as they are born in Sikh family; for the world they are Sikhs:


==Misuse of Equality with men==
==Misuse of Equality with men==
* Feeling Of equality, Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops , Then go to beauty parlours(Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a baani caled [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]].


By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Feeling of equality: Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops , Then go to beauty parlours (Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves Sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a [[Bani]] called [[Suchajee & Kuchajee]]. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


*missuse of equality? See, this is what frustrates me also.As a sikh girl in the uk, im still in school and im at the stage where i question everything....
*misuse of equality? See, this is what frustrates me also.As a sikh girl in the uk, im still in school and im at the stage where I question everything....
If sikh men...can drink...why cant sikh women? Sikhs are the most notorious drinkers!! its a fact!! If a man drinks so can his wife. If the man doesnt want his wife to drink he should stop also.
If Sikh men...can drink...why cant Sikh women? Sikhs are the most notorious drinkers!! its a fact!! If a man drinks so can his wife. If the man doesn't want his wife to drink he should stop also.


*and a girl can do what a guy can do! Sikh girls are the daughters of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, they too have the spirit of a lion within them. people should not forget that! I hate being told that i cant do something when the implication of the reasoning is that im a girl, and if i was a boy i would be allowed to!
*and a girl can do what a guy can do! Sikh girls are the daughters of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, they too have the spirit of a lion within them. people should not forget that! I hate being told that i cant do something when the implication of the reasoning is that im a girl, and if i was a boy i would be allowed to!
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"Kesh" is one of the five kakkars of sikhism.In [[Sikhism]] to cut hair is considered a sin and by doing so ir called [[Patit]] Today girls  believe in artificial look. They want to give their own look by  Cutting hair in different styles. Kanga is provided to set up the hair and keep them clean but in vein. Thus they are disobeying the Guru's order.
"[[Kesh]]" is one of the five [[kakkar]]s of Sikhism.In [[Sikhism]] to cut hair is considered a sin and by doing so is called [[Patit]] Today girls  believe in artificial look. They want to give their own look by  Cutting hair in different styles. [[Kanga]] is provided to set up the hair and keep them clean but in vein. Thus they are disobeying the Guru's order.


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Many people dissobay guruji's order. But there is no actual sin in sikhism.. only self improvement.
Many people disobey guruji's order. But there is no actual sin in Sikhism.. only self improvement.
Sin implys penence..penance is like, paying for a sin, im jus gna make up an example here...erm if your a christian and you commit a sin, and you visit ur priest the priest says "go to this church and climb up and down the stairs this many times and your sin will be forgiven"<< that is penance.
Sin implies penance..penance is like, paying for a sin, im jus gna make up an example here...erm if your a Christian and you commit a sin, and you visit ur priest the priest says "go to this church and climb up and down the stairs this many times and your sin will be forgiven"<< that is penance.




a sikh is someone who 1) Believes in the guru granth sahib ji as the last eternal guru
a sikh is someone who 1) Believes in the Guru Granth Sahib ji as the last eternal guru
                       2) Believes in the 5 k's   
                       2) Believes in the 5 k's   
                       3) Believes in taking amrit
                       3) Believes in taking amrit
                       4) is working towards becoming a Khalsa.
                       4) is working towards becoming a Khalsa.
Im a bit of an inbetween, i've never cut my hair, because it means something to me. the point is, if hair doesnt mean much to a person they'll cut it. Let them cut it, when they want to keep it they will.=)
I'm a bit of an in between, i've never cut my hair, because it means something to me. the point is, if hair doesn't mean much to a person they'll cut it. Let them cut it, when they want to keep it they will.=)


==Dressup & Nudity==
==Dressup & Nudity==
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* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls.The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society.In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]
* Today many Sikhs feel helpless to see the dressing sense of modern Sikh girls.The growing tendency among the girls to show body contours is a unhealthy step in our Sikh society.In [[Sikhism]] indecent dresses are not allowed. By [[user:Sarbjeet 1313me]]


* In gurdwars these girls comes wearing indecent clothes. My Grandmom Says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes, you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company u have professional style including your sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why don't these girls think about the professionalism of Gurdwara. Simple Dress UP, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* In gurdwaras these girls comes wearing indecent clothes. My Grandmom Says "Ah Zamana A Gaya, Waheguru Waheguru". Why these humans not take care of their clothes, you are sitting in congregation. Like in a company u have professional style including your sense, Clothing, Speaking style. Why don't these girls think about the professionalism of Gurdwara. Simple Dress UP, Speaking Waheguru, Sitting Below with posture and with decent style. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Tatooes which are used to covered the body used today by mostly women best example is [[Mandira Bedi]] who uses '''Ik Onkar''' Tattoe on his back. What the hell is this this is not encouraging sikhism. This is the beijitti of Sikhism. I have seen many user reviews and mostly are Firangee Sikhs Girls who wrote "what happens if mandira uses sikh symbol on the body, this is to encourage sikhism". I want to tell them that Guru says first become nude and then put my tattoe on your body to cover it. Actually mandira donot knows the meaning of that symbol and so the Firangee Sikh Girls.By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
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==Drugs and Intoxicants==
==Drugs and Intoxicants==
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* Drugs - The life destructer today women takes with great pleasure. In my city chandigarh women likes to drink(wine beer etc) & its normal but a Sikh women do the same thing then it's ABNORMAL. This all is due to company & Taste Of Tounge & Taste of Mind. It is Shameful for me to see the sikh gals & guys not the sikh only but the humanity, to take drugs and other intoxicants. Girls here drink the whole cough syrup and says "Sheeshee Laa Rahi haan". Cough syrup is also a type of drug but what attitude they have towards the seeshe. They also eat capsules. Drinking & taking drugs they dances between boys late night in club discos. An Siyaar Blady guys touch their private parts and girls have two responses "Koi Chakkar Nahin & & & Koi Chakkar He nahin. Well this is just some basic thing which i predict. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Drugs - The life destructor today women takes with great pleasure. In my city chandigarh women likes to drink(wine beer etc) & its normal but a Sikh women do the same thing then it's ABNORMAL. This all is due to company & Taste Of Tongue & Taste of Mind. It is Shameful for me to see the Sikh gals & guys not the Sikh only but the humanity, to take drugs and other intoxicants. Girls here drink the whole cough syrup and says "Sheeshee Laa Rahi haan". Cough syrup is also a type of drug but what attitude they have towards the seeshe. They also eat capsules. Drinking & taking drugs they dances between boys late night in club discos. An Siyaar Blady guys touch their private parts and girls have two responses "Koi Chakkar Nahin & & & Koi Chakkar He nahin. Well this is just some basic thing which i predict. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


==Lustful==
==Lustful==
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* Today girl attract towards opposite sex easily and when she got raped then she knows what she did. I have many examples here. Boys are always lusty but today a Girl is also Lusty of nature. She makes herself attractive to attract others. What Guru Says '''Ranna Hoyian Bodhiann, Pursh Hoyae Siyaar'''. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]
* Today girl attract towards opposite sex easily and when she got raped then she knows what she did. I have many examples here. Boys are always lusty but today a Girl is also Lusty of nature. She makes herself attractive to attract others. What Guru Says '''Ranna Hoyian Bodhiann, Pursh Hoyae Siyaar'''. By [[user:hpt_lucky]]


* Today due to the lot of exposure of sex on TV there is a negative impact on our younger generation .Not only Sikh girls but non Sikh girls are falling prey to such lustful desires.  it is truth. Infactuation is there. We have many examples where Sikh girls are doing sex at the early age of 15-18 to fulfil their lustful desire.In Sikhism Sex is not prohibited but it ir allowed in the prescribed format of  Married life with loyality. By [[user:sarbjeet_1313me]]
* Today due to the lot of exposure of sex on TV there is a negative impact on our younger generation .Not only Sikh girls but non Sikh girls are falling prey to such lustful desires.  it is truth. Infatuation is there. We have many examples where Sikh girls are doing sex at the early age of 15-18 to fulfil their lustful desire.In Sikhism Sex is not prohibited but it ir allowed in the prescribed format of  Married life with loyalty. By [[user:sarbjeet_1313me]]


* There is alot of negative impact, this is westernised society and we as sikhs have to learn to combat its influence. We cant stop it from happening, but we can stop the influence in our communities. '''(User:Unknown)'''
* There is a lot of negative impact, this is westernised society and we as Sikhs have to learn to combat its influence. We cant stop it from happening, but we can stop the influence in our communities. '''(User:Unknown)'''


* As for girls and dressing up, girls need to cover up more! There is no reason why you cant look good and be modest. But its also upto the men, alot of young sikh boys, especially here in the UK, have NO SELF CONTROL!! its really quite sad..i think within the communities girls need to have more self respect in general, then they wont feel the need for attention from men, they'll stop dressing indecently as it is.'''(User:Unknown)'''
* As for girls and dressing up, girls need to cover up more! There is no reason why you cant look good and be modest. But its also up to the men, a lot of young Sikh boys, especially here in the UK, have NO SELF CONTROL!! its really quite sad..i think within the communities girls need to have more self respect in general, then they wont feel the need for attention from men, they'll stop dressing indecently as it is.'''(User:Unknown)'''


*Also, i think theres a huge taboo in our society, whenever a guy even walks with a girl people instantly assume something dirty...i walk with my cousins down a road see an old lady from a gurdwara and they give me the evils every time!
*Also, i think there's a huge taboo in our society, whenever a guy even walks with a girl people instantly assume something dirty...i walk with my cousins down a road see an old lady from a gurdwara and they give me the evils every time!


*sikh girls and boys need to be allowed to see eachother, sikh boys will learn how to control themselves and treat women with respect and sikh girls will stop trying to sell themselves..its pretty simple!
*Sikh girls and boys need to be allowed to see each other, Sikh boys will learn how to control themselves and treat women with respect and Sikh girls will stop trying to sell themselves..its pretty simple!


*It makes me so angry when people make stupid assumptions, like a girl cant even walk down the road with her cousin without someone assuming something dirty! Parents need to trust their kids and stop being so backward. At the same time kids need to chill out and learn that there is more to life than trying to get attention from the opposite gender.
*It makes me so angry when people make stupid assumptions, like a girl cant even walk down the road with her cousin without someone assuming something dirty! Parents need to trust their kids and stop being so backward. At the same time kids need to chill out and learn that there is more to life than trying to get attention from the opposite gender.
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-The youth need to be strong, they need to unite and educate and help eachother, if this doesnt happen then there is no hope! And also to any parents reading this<< Please PLEASE PLEASE!! could you encourage a Sikh Youth Society at your local gurdwara? Get some kids together and organise discussions and activities...even if its just going to the park...the youth will take more pride and be more confident that way. I know it will help alot, you'll see the difference!
-The youth need to be strong, they need to unite and educate and help eachother, if this doesnt happen then there is no hope! And also to any parents reading this<< Please PLEASE PLEASE!! could you encourage a Sikh Youth Society at your local gurdwara? Get some kids together and organise discussions and activities...even if its just going to the park...the youth will take more pride and be more confident that way. I know it will help alot, you'll see the difference!


==Strictly View==
==See also==
 
* [[Sikh Women]]
* [[Sikh Women]]


==References==
==References==
* Quotes are users own's construction using Gurbani and watching the world. So no Copyright material is there on it. The examples given here are 100 % true.
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Revision as of 18:33, 5 May 2009

From woman, man is born;

within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married.
Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come.
When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound.
So why call her bad? From her, kings are born.
From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all.

Guru Nanak, Raag Aasaa Mehal 1, Page 473

These are words that were uttered by the founder of Sikhism, Sri Guru Nanak Dev in about 1499. So for Sikhs from that period, there has been compulsion to treat women as equals and gender discrimination was not allowed. Guru Gobind Singh's also confirmed the equality by saying the line "Manas Kee Jaat Sabhey Ekey Pehchanboo" - "Regard all of human race as one".

The following are some of the real facts that one finds in modern type of Sikh girls. Actually they should not truly be considered as Sikh but as they are born in Sikh family; for the world they are Sikhs:

Misuse of Equality with men

  • Feeling of equality: Makes their personalities like boys, Feature of boys develops , Then go to beauty parlours (Waxing, Cleansing etc). Maximum women have hair on their body and they have to sit before butcher to kill their hair. Not only those ladies now Sikh women are also doing these all and call themselves Sikh. Today many gals not care about their clothes, they wear it only to show their body. Gurus gives equality but also wrote a Bani called Suchajee & Kuchajee. By user:hpt_lucky
  • misuse of equality? See, this is what frustrates me also.As a sikh girl in the uk, im still in school and im at the stage where I question everything....

If Sikh men...can drink...why cant Sikh women? Sikhs are the most notorious drinkers!! its a fact!! If a man drinks so can his wife. If the man doesn't want his wife to drink he should stop also.

  • and a girl can do what a guy can do! Sikh girls are the daughters of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, they too have the spirit of a lion within them. people should not forget that! I hate being told that i cant do something when the implication of the reasoning is that im a girl, and if i was a boy i would be allowed to!
  • the day sikh boys learn to treat women with more respect, and show some admiration towards girls who conduct themselves with dignity is the day sikh girls wont feel the need to expose themselves.

It works both ways!

Killing Hair